My husband recently told me I was fat (but he didn't say fat, he said I've gained a lot of weight and he didn't find me attractive) I've recently noticed he's been looking, following, and liking a lot of ig models who look nothing like me (I'm black, the girls are white or Hispanic). What should I do? I've talked to him about how it makes me feel but he doesn't seem to care cause I'm the problem, but he's the only one who tells me I'm fat. Everyone tells me I'm pretty and I still get hit on.